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Radical Self-love for the Holidays: A wlw Celebration of You!

21 oct. 2024
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The holiday season is yet coming soon, and then many are decking the halls, we know that for some of us, it’s not all jingle bells and joy. Especially if you’re queer, navigating family dynamics and the pressures of the season can feel... well, a bit much.

But here we are,  this year, it’s all about you. Yep, we’re talking about radical self love — a chance to prioritize your happiness, mental health, and most importantly, your fabulous self.

The Holidays Can Be Tricky for wlw
Let’s be real: the holidays can be a mixed bag. While some families embrace you with open arms, others may still be learning (or downright resisting) who you truly are. That can make holiday gatherings a little more stressful, especially if you're the only queer person in the room.

But here's the thing — you don’t have to let that take away your sparkle. You have every right to enjoy the season on your terms, without hiding or shrinking yourself for anyone else's comfort.

What Is Radical Self love , Anyway?
Radical self-care is about loving yourself so fiercely that you protect your energy, your joy, and your well-being, no matter what. It’s not about being selfish; it’s about choosing you in a world that sometimes asks you to be someone else.

Ready to dive into your holiday self-love toolkit? Let’s make this season not just bearable, but beautiful

1. Set Boundaries Like a Boss

Boundaries are a must form of self-love, especially when you’re being with families. You have every right to set limits on what’s okay and what’s not — and yes, that includes shutting down invasive questions about your love life or why you dress the way you do.

Here’s how to master the art of boundary-setting:

  • Take a breather when things get too heated. Need to step outside or find a quiet corner? Do it.
  • Change the subject if someone starts getting too personal.
  • Politely exit conversations that don’t serve your well-being.
  • Say no to things that drain you — and don’t feel guilty about it!

Remember, you are not responsible for managing anyone else’s feelings. Your emotional and mental health come first. It’s totally okay to prioritize you!


2. Show Up as Your True Self

If there’s one thing the world needs more of, it’s you — in all your authentic, queer glory. Whether you’re rocking that amazing new haircut, showing off your latest thrift-store finds, or simply being you, take up space and shine.

Of course, safety always comes first, so if being fully out isn’t an option in every space, that’s okay too. But if you’re ready to let your rainbow flag fly, go for it. Your holiday season should feel as vibrant as you are.

Sometimes, just showing up as yourself can open hearts and minds. But don’t feel pressured to educate anyone — you’re here to enjoy the festivities, not play professor. Your joy is the only explanation needed.


3. Have a Game Plan for Tricky Situations

Let’s face it: holiday gatherings can sometimes trigger uncomfortable moments. Maybe it’s a misgendering comment, or a relative who’s still stuck in the past. Knowing your triggers and having a plan in place can help you stay grounded.

Here’s how to handle those awkward moments like a pro:

  • Notice your body’s cues — a racing heart, tense shoulders — and take a moment to breathe and reset.
  • Take breaks as needed. Whether it’s stepping outside for fresh air or finding a quiet spot, give yourself space to regroup.
  • Text a friend or reach out to your support network if things get overwhelming. Sometimes, just knowing someone’s got your back is enough to help you power through.

You’re in control of your experience, and if things get too much, you can always leave early — no explanations needed!


4. Create Your wlw Holiday Joy

The holidays don’t have to look like everyone else’s. This season, build your own wlw joy by surrounding yourself with the people and things that make you feel safe, seen, and celebrated.

  • Host a chosen family gathering with your LGBTQIA+ squad — whether it’s virtual or in-person, it’s a chance to celebrate without the stress.
  • Plan your own traditions that feel good to you, whether that’s a cozy night in with your favorite movie or a fun holiday-themed brunch.
  • Treat yourself to something that makes you feel fabulous. Whether it’s a wlw sex toys (hello, shower time bliss!) or a pair of fuzzy socks, self-love can be as simple as indulging in what makes you happy.

And don’t forget, self-love is sexy! Why not make it a little spicier by treating yourself to something that makes you feel empowered in your body? (Hint: our Curved Dildo makes for the perfect self-love gift — check it out here).


You Deserve Radical Self-love — and a Fabulous Holiday!

The holidays are what you make them, and this year, they’re all about you. By embracing radical self-love, you’re giving yourself the gift of peace, joy, and confidence — no matter what challenges the season throws your way.

Remember, you don’t have to change, shrink, or hide who you are for anyone’s comfort. You deserve to be celebrated for all the amazing things that make you, you.

So, treat yourself, set those boundaries, and surround yourself with the love and support you deserve. Whether you’re chilling with friends or indulging in some well-earned alone time, you’re in charge of your holiday story — and it’s going to be fabulous.

And don’t forget, nothing says “radical self-love” like a little pleasure. Head over to Crassie and check out our full line of toys designed for your happiness — because you deserve to feel good, inside and out!

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