When She Says Let Me Strap On On

 When we do use the strap on , that's usually after my girl eats me out for a good bit.

Usually I don't mind the strap waiting. I'm kinda just lying back and feeling myself, thinking "Damn, I'm about to get fucked".

Also, watching her strap on on is sexy to me.

If you’ve ever been halfway through making out, everything’s heating up, and suddenly your partner says, “Wait, lemme put it on,” then you know exactly what this is about.

At that moment, the strap on on, the receiver doesn't know what else can do when waiting? Just lying there, and you’re both wondering how to stay in the mood?

But here’s the truth: no one really teaches SEDUCATION:

Strap on sex isn’t just about penetration. It’s about touching, rhythm, connection, and shared energy, and that little pause before the action can actually be one of the most erotic parts of it all.

Yes, I quite like the wait for it, I find the anticipation a huge turn on, I don’t usually watch her strap on on, I like getting on my hands and knees in doggy position, hearing her putting on the harness behind me and thinking " omfg, I’m about to get railed into the duvet", then when finally she gently puts it inside me, It is a heaven.

It’s not a “pause.” It’s the build up .

Seducation 101: Why Strapping Takes Time

If you’re new to strap ons, here’s what’s actually going on behind the scenes:

Adjustment is key. The harness needs to fit snugly, not floppy, the base should rest low against your pubic bone, ideally close enough that you can grind and feel friction.

The right position matters. Many people kneel beside their partner on the bed, holding the dildo steady as they adjust straps and find the perfect angle. You want the dildo riding low, right where your clit is, so every thrust and grind connects your pleasure to hers.

Practice helps. Just like any sexual skill, putting on a strap gets smoother with time. You can even do “solo drills”, and yes, lesbian boot camp, so when the moment comes, it feels natural and hot, not technical and tense.

So, no, you’re not doing it wrong. Strap on sex is just a little hands-on learning.

How to Adjust Your Strap On Harness for Clitoral Contact
(and Classic Lesbian Strap On  Sex Positions That Actually Feel Amazing)

A strap on that fits you right makes the difference between “this feels fine” and “holy f*ck, we just merged souls.”

Wlw sex is more about participation, the grind and glow feeling, where you feel the friction right on your clit as you thrust.

Step 1: The base of the dildo should sit low on your pelvis, ideally where your pubic bone meets your clit.If it’s sitting too high, you’ll lose contact and it’ll start feeling like you’re just like… doing cardio.If it’s too loose, lose control.

Step 2: Put the strap on dildo slightly upward; this way, when you thrust forward, it naturally presses down on your clit. If you’re using a dual density bendable dildo, this part’s magic. You can curve it exactly where she likes it,  maybe angled toward her G-spot, while still keeping the base pressed against you for that delicious mutual stimulation.

Step 3: You don’t need to “thrust like a guy.” The hottest strap on sex is about grinding, rolling your hips, and staying close enough to feel each other’s rhythm.

The Grind:
Press your pelvis close and move your hips in slow, steady circles. This keeps the harness base rubbing right against your clit while the dildo inside her, perfect for rhythm and control without losing contact.

The Pull-Back:
Slide almost all the way out until just the tip stays inside, then roll your hips forward again. It’s a teasing move that builds anticipation while keeping G-spot pressure deep and steady.

The Hip Wave:
Think of it like slow dancing while you’re connected — your hips lead the motion, not your arms. It keeps the movement sensual, fluid, and centered on shared pleasure.

Say goodbye to taking turns and hello to shared pleasure 

The Black Friday New Arrival Crassie Dual Density Bendable Strap On Dildo With Grinding Base changes the game.

Why It’s a Game-Changer:

Bendable technological design: With a smooth, bendable shaft that holds its shape at the perfect angle you choose, curve it toward her G-spot, or adjust it to fit your bodies perfectly; it stays exactly where you bend it. In strap on harness, its snug, ergonomic design molds comfortably to the wearer’s body, offering unbeatable stability and control: no slipping, no sliding, just pure, effortless motion no matter how wild things get.

Wider Grinding Base: Textured design delivers unparalleled clitoral stimulation for the wearer.

Stay close, keep kissing, keep grinding, and move together.

Classic Lesbian Strap On Sex Positions (That Hit Right)

Kneel & Hover

Kneel beside her on the bed, one knee between her thighs.

Hold the dildo steady with one hand and guide yourself in with the other.

Keep your pelvis low so your clit rubs the grinding base as you thrust.

Perfect for closeness, control, and teasing eye contact.

Spooning / Side Grind

Both of you on your sides, her leg slightly lifted.

This keeps your bodies pressed together, lots of skin contact, and your clit stays against the grinding base.

Great for longer sessions or slower, sensual play.

Face-to-Face Missionary (Queer Edition)

Strap wearer on top, dildo angled slightly down.

Use the bendable core to hit her G-spot while your clit grinds into the dildo base.

Add kissing, whispering, and those forehead touches that make the whole world blur out.

From Behind (Doggy or Over-the-Edge)

Angle the dildo upward to target her G-spot — the bendable type works best here.

Keep your hips close, not far back, so you can still grind as you thrust.

Try wrapping your arm around her waist to rub her clit from the front while you move.

Strap on Sex , is designed to share pleasures.