A lot of girls have asked me this question: They’ve followed all the online guides to find the so-called ACGU spots, but no matter what, they just can’t find them. What should they do?

Well, here’s the thing— Even if you find these spots, not everyone will feel anything special.

In other words, finding the spot ≠ instant pleasure or orgasm. More likely? You’ll feel… nothing.

And this is super common! You’re not alone.

Second good news: If you do find the spot but don’t feel anything special, don’t worry! This is totally normal and doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with your body. No need to panic, no need for treatment.

Second “not sure” news: Some people will only feel something under specific types of stimulation.

And that specific stimulation might not be self-stimulation—it could be that only a partner’s touch works.

Or it could be that only certain angles or methods work.

Or it could be something else entirely.

So, if your goal is to locate the spots first, then attack them relentlessly and wait for an orgasm to magically happen—

Please, prepare for failure.

Because this method has a very, very, VERY high failure rate.

Some people are lucky and feel intense pleasure as soon as they find the spot—like pulling an SSR in a gacha game.

But most people aren’t that lucky.

That’s why, when having lesbian sex,  I don’t recommend focusing on finding these spots.

I’ve tried finding them myself—the most classic is the G-spot.

Most guides say: “Once you find the G-spot, press or rub it, and you’ll feel pleasure.”

But for me? Sorry, all I feel is the urge to pee. Pleasure? Nowhere to be found.

It’s not like the books and guides say, where the main character’s fingers touch the magic spot, press twice, and suddenly, pleasure explodes.

In reality, pressing that spot just makes you feel like peeing, not orgasming. It makes sense—the bladder is right there. If you’re pressing against it, of course, you’ll feel the urge to pee.

For me, penetration (rather than pressing with fingers) is what feels good. Fingers just don’t work for that method of stimulation.

And guess what? Most G-spot guides focus on finding it with fingers.

If I insisted on only using fingers and refused to try anything else, I’d probably never experience success in my entire life.

So if you’ve followed guides—like pressing two knuckles deep at an upward angle—and you feel pleasure, great! Don’t overthink it, just enjoy.

But if you find the spot and feel nothing, then switch it up! Try Velvet Touch Dual Density Dildo, another best way of penetration to find g spot pleasure.

Is it possible to dildo g spot pleasure ?

Because if so, the Crassie Velvet Touch is my new committed partner. From the moment I felt its squishy dual density dildo, the soft outer layer and firm inner core make it incredibly real soft feeling , and I’ve found myself reaching for it over and over again—sometimes even over my favorite clitoral toys. That’s how good it is!

Who Will Love the Velvet Touch Dual Density Dildo?

If you’re any of the following, this beauty belongs in your toy drawer:
✅ Beginner dildo users – Soft, flexible, and easy to control.
✅ Queers who love strap on play – Pairs perfectly with your favorite Crassie jock harness.
✅ G-spot or A-spot seekers – The 2 slight curves hit all the right spots deeping and grinding.
✅ Texture lovers – The squishy head and smooth shaft create divine sensations.

Whether you’re a beginner strap on or experiences, the Velvet Touch adapts to your pleasure style.

How It Feels in Use Velvet Touch Dual Density Dildo ?

The Velvet Touch delivers on every level. Whether I’m using it solo or with a partner, the firm-yet-soft texture creates an experience unlike any other.

Solo Play: The dual-density squishiness makes thrusting feel incredibly natural. The curved shaft finds the g-spot effortlessly, and I love pressing the base against my clit for blended orgasms.

Strap On Play: Paired with my Crassie Jock Harness, it stays secure, moves naturally, and feels amazing from both the giving and receiving end.

Double Penetration: This dildo is the perfect thickness for pairing with a butt plug or another dildo without feeling too overwhelming.

Dildo G Spot Pleasure Tips 

When properly stimulated, it can create deep, toe-curling orgasms.

1. Warm Up with External Teasing

Before penetration,  start with clitoral or vulva stimulation to build arousal. Aroused tissues swell, making the G-spot easier to locate and more sensitive.

2. Find the Perfect lesbian sex position

Missionary with a Pillow Under the Hips – This tilts the pelvis, helping the dildo angle toward the G-spot.

Cowgirl (Riding on Top) – You control the movement, allowing for deeper, targeted pressure.

Doggy Style (Solo or with a Partner) – This angle naturally curves the dildo towards the G-spot.

Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) – If using the dildo while grinding against a partner, this can enhance both clitoral and G-spot pleasure.

3. The "Come Hither" Motion

Once inside, try a gentle rocking or "come-hither" movement rather than just thrusting in and out. The G-spot responds best to pressure rather than friction, so keep the movements steady and rhythmic.

4. Play with Angles and Pressure

Since everyone's anatomy is unique, experiment with different angles to find what feels best. Some may prefer deep, firm pressure, while others enjoy lighter stimulation with a softer curve.

5. Add Some Lube

G-spot stimulation can sometimes feel intense, so a good water-based lubricant keeps things comfortable and smooth. A dual-density dildo’s texture can enhance sensations, but lube ensures everything stays pleasurable.

6. Try It with a Strap on Harness

Want a hands-free experience? Pair your dual density dildo with a strap on harness for partner play. This allows for deeper thrusting, rhythm control, and a more immersive experience.

7. Combine It with Clitoral Stimulation

For a more explosive orgasm, add clitoral stimulation while using the dildo. A bullet vibrator or just using your fingers can amplify the pleasure, leading to blended orgasms.

G-spot pleasure is all about exploration, pressure, and finding what works for you. A dual-density dildo makes the experience smoother and more comfortable, giving you firm yet soft stimulation exactly where you need it. Whether solo or with a partner, take your time, experiment with positions, and most importantly—enjoy the journey!

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