More Than Just Lesbian Sex with Toys — A Game Changer for Solo & Queer Play

Double ended dildos might look a bit intimidating at first glance, but they’re one of the most versatile and exciting sex toys for queers out there. Whether you’re playing solo or with a partner, a double ended dildo opens up, especially one where queer can comfortably be in a sitting position, facing each other, which are new possibilities for shared pleasure and deep connection.

From sensual scissoring to thrilling double penetration, double ended dildos can do it all. But first, let's break down the how-to’s, tips, and best positions to help you maximize your experience.

Finding the Right Double Ended Dildos for

You

👉 For first-timers: Look for a softer, more flexible silicone option that bends easily. A U-shaped design is easier to control and holds its shape well.

👉 For shared penetration: If you and your partner want to move together, a double head dildo like stick offers better stability and control.

No matter your preference, always choose 100% body-safe platinum silicone for a smooth, non-porous, and long-lasting experience.

How to Use A Double Dong : Lesbian Sex Positions for a U-Shaped Double Dildo & Straight Double Dildo

Double ended dildos open up both pleasure possibilities—whether you’re scissoring, grinding, or diving into double penetration. But how do you get the best angles, rhythm, and full control for maximum enjoyment? Here’s your go-to guide for U-shaped double dildos (for a snug, connected fit) and straight double dildos (for deep, full-throttle penetration).

🔥 U-Shaped Double ended Dildos Positions: Closer, Connected, & Deep 🔥

U-shaped double ended dildos give extra full control and flexibility, making them perfect for synchronized pleasure. The curved design keeps the toy in place, so both partners can move freely.

1. Classic Face-to-Face Scissors (Perfect for queers)

Best for: Deep, controlled thrusting, clitoral stimulation, and eye contact.

How to do it:

Both partners lay on their sides, facing each other, with one leg draped over the other’s hip.
Insert each end of the U-shaped dildo, positioning the curve for a snug fit.
Move in rhythm, rocking your hips and grinding together.

Pro Tip: Press your bodies together for added clit stimulation or use a small vibrator for extra pleasure.

2. Doggy with a U-Twist (Perfect for Strap-On Lovers & Anal Play)

Best for: Hands-free thrusting, deeper penetration.

How to do it:

Both partners kneel on all fours, backing onto their respective ends of the U-dildo.
The curve of the toy holds it in place while you thrust against each other.
Adjust the angle by shifting your hips forward or back for deeper or shallower penetration.

Pro Tip: Use a strap-on harness for extra stability and control.

3. Reverse Grind (Perfect for Slow & Sensual Sex)

Best for: Slow, rolling movements and hands-free penetration.

How to do it:

Sit with your back to your partner, both of you spreading your legs wide.
Insert the U-dildo and grind your hips in a figure-eight motion while leaning into each other.
The curved shape holds the toy in place, so you can focus on pleasure.

Pro Tip: Add a wand vibrator between your bodies for mind-blowing blended orgasms.

🔥 Straight Double Head Dildo Positions: Deep & Wild 🔥

Straight, stick-like double ended dildos require more coordination and control but offer deeper penetration and more movement.

1. The Bridge (Perfect for Full-Body Contact & Long Dildos)

Best for: Deep thrusting, full penetration, and slow grinding.

How to do it:

One of Partner lies on their back with knees bent.
The other Partner straddles them, facing away, and inserts their end of the dildo.
Move your hips up and down in a grinding motion, keeping the rhythm steady.

Pro Tip: Use pillows to elevate your hips and get the perfect angle.

2. Double Back Ride (Perfect for Dual Penetration & Hands-Free Play)

Best for: Vaginal .

How to do it:

One Partner lies flat on their stomach while the other Partner straddles them from behind.
Each partner inserts their end, and the Partner controls the motion by rocking their hips.
This position creates deep, rhythmic penetration while keeping your hands free.

Pro Tip: Try a vibrating around the dildo for added stimulation!

Find Your Rhythm, Find Your Pleasure

U-shaped double ended dildos are perfect for close, connected, and controlled pleasure, while straight double head dildo allow for deep penetration and wilder movement. Experiment with different positions, communicate with your partner, and find the rhythm that makes you moan.