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What Does Lesbian Sex Equipment Include?
When you hear “lesbian sex equipment,” you might imagine strap-ons or vibrators - but it’s really much more than that. Lesbian sex equipment includes any tool that enhances pleasure, intimacy, and connection between women. It’s not about “adding something you lack”; it’s about exploring more ways to feel and connect.
Here’s what usually counts as lesbian sex equipment:
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Dildos - Slim, soft, bendable, or double-ended for shared pleasure.
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Strap on harnesses - Jock-style, adjustable, or complete kits.
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Vibrators - From bullet vibes to couple-friendly designs that hum between bodies.
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Accessories - Water-based lube, toy cleaner, condoms for toys, and soft storage bags.
And here’s the golden rule: safety first. Choose toys made from 100% silicone — body-safe, non-porous, and eco-friendly. Silicone toys last longer, feel softer, and can be boiled or steamed for sterilization.
Why Use Lesbian Sex Equipment?
Lbh — many of us have amazing sex without toys. Fingering, oral, grinding — these can all be deeply intimate and satisfying. So why bring equipment into the mix?
Because it’s not about needing more — it’s about wanting to explore more.
As one lesbian said on Reddit:
“Needless to say, I use toys frequently, especially strap-ons. Freeing up my hands for other things is irresistible. It takes a while to get used to them, but once you do, they’re a lot of fun. There are also ways to make your strap-on feel pleasurable.”
Toys can:
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Add new rhythms and sensations that fingers can’t.
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Help partners synchronize pleasure, especially with vibrators or shared dildos.
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Bring back spark and curiosity to long-term relationships.
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Create a sense of mutual power and playfulness — not dominance, but shared energy.
They’re simply tools for communication, creativity, and connection.
How to Choose the Right Lesbian Sex Equipment
Choosing the right toy can feel intimidating at first — especially if you’re new to penetration or harness play. But here’s a step-by-step guide to keep it simple and safe:
Step 1. Know what you want to explore
Are you looking for solo play, partner play, or both?
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Solo: Vibrators, suction toys, or slim dildos.
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Partner: Strap ons, bendable dildos, or double ended designs.
Step 2. Focus on size and flexibility
For beginners, smaller and smoother is better. Soft silicone toys glide easily and give you full control.
Step 3. Prioritize material
Buy 100% silicone body-safe toys. They’re phthalate-free, non-toxic, and built for long-term use.
Step 4. Comfort first
Your harness should feel like a hug, not a restriction. Go for adjustable, padded, or jock-style harnesses that move with your body.
Step 5. Take it slow
Start with small vibrators or slim dildos before exploring strap-on play. Lesbian sex toys should feel like an extension of your desire, not a performance.
Top 8 Recommended Lesbian Sex Toys & Strap On Harnesses for Beginners
Here’s a guide to Crassie’s most beginner-friendly toys, loved by lesbians for their thoughtful design, comfort, and body safety.
| Product | Description & Advantages | Ideal For | Key Features |
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| Manta Thrusting Vibrator | A powerhouse of sensation with 9-frequency telescopic thrusts (up to 400/min) and dual-action suction. Mimics oral pleasure with 5000 RPM rotations for an engulfing, tornado-like experience. | Solo play or teasing with partner | • Dual-action thrust + suction • 9 vibration modes • Non-realistic head design for deep stimulation |
| 6-Inch Curved Dildo (Blue Strap On) | Compact and comfortable — the curved shaft follows body contours while the enlarged tip targets sensitive zones. Made of soft platinum silicone with a flared suction base for hands-free fun. | Beginners seeking gentle penetration | • 5" Insertable Length with small size • Smooth, flexible shaft • Suction base for versatile play |
| Rose Bendable Dildo Kit | A poetic blend of sensuality and control. Its bendable platinum silicone core adapts to your shape, offering precision and intimacy during solo or couple play. | Couples exploring shared intimacy | • Bendable for customizable angles • Soft-touch silicone • Romantic, non-realistic design |
| Double Ended Dildo DualViolet Strapless Strap On | Dual-ended design allows both partners to feel connected. Made of platinum silicone, compatible with Crassie boxer and brief harnesses, and ideal for face-to-face intimacy. | Lesbian couples exploring strapless play | • Dual-ended for shared pleasure • Hands-free strapless design • Body-safe and harness-compatible |
| Viva Vibrator | Compact, quiet, and powerful. Perfect for experimenting with external stimulation on clitoris or nipples, and adds variety to foreplay. | Beginners or couples exploring vibration | • Multi-speed settings • Compact design • Removable bullet vibrator |
| Adjustable Strap On Harness | Fully adjustable waist and thigh straps for a secure, comfortable fit. Keeps toys stable during movement while feeling supportive, not restrictive. | Beginners wanting reliable harness control | • Adjustable straps • Firm O-ring support • Fits multiple toy sizes |
| SnugHer Boxer Harness (1.5” O-Ring) | Soft, boxer-style strap-on harness offering a snug fit and everyday comfort. Discreet under clothing and ready for spontaneous play. | Those preferring sporty, casual harness style | • 3 pockets: 1 buffer pad behind the dildo for comfort, 2 small pockets for vibrators. Fits XS–3XL, perfect for plus-sized queers. • Secure and comfortable waistband |
| Crassie Lingerie Strap On Harness | Elegant and empowering, this lingerie-inspired harness fuses aesthetic charm with firm functionality. Comfortable and performance-ready. | Lovers who want both beauty and stability |
• Soft, breathable fabric |
Crassie Tip: Start with a size and texture that feels welcoming, not intimidating. Lesbian sex equipment should never feel like a challenge — it’s an exploration of trust, pleasure, and connection.
How to Introduce Toys to Your Partner
This part can be awkward at first — but it doesn’t have to be.
Start with curiosity, not pressure. Try saying something like:
“I’ve been curious about using a toy together. Not because something’s missing — but because I want to feel you in a new way.”
Then, make it playful. You can explore toys together before using them:
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Run the vibrator across her neck, arms, or thighs.
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Watch each other’s reactions.
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Turn it into an experiment, not an obligation.
A good rule of thumb: talk, tease, test.
Cleaning, Safety, and Sharing
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Clean toys after every use with warm water and unscented soap.
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Disinfect platinum silicone toys by boiling or steaming (only if no electrical parts).
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Use condoms if sharing between partners or switching from anal to vaginal use.
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Store toys separately in cloth bags to prevent lint or dust.
And yes — if you share toys, buy new ones eventually. Hygiene keeps pleasure carefree.
Lesbian sex equipment isn’t about replacing touch — it’s about enhancing connection, comfort, and creativity.
Whether you’re curious about vibrators, experimenting with a strap-on, or exploring shared dildos, remember: there’s no right way to be a les in bed — only your way.
With Crassie’s body-safe, queer-designed toys, you can take that journey at your own pace — safely, confidently, and joyfully.
FAQ
Q1: Are toys necessary for lesbian sex?
No, but they can deepen intimacy and open up new sensations.
Q2: Can toys be shared between partners?
Yes, with condoms and proper cleaning.
Q3: What’s best for beginners?
Slim dildos, bullet vibrators, or bendable strap-on kits.
Q4: Are Crassie sex toys safe?
100%! Made from platinum silicone — body-safe, non-toxic, and eco-friendly.
Q5: How do I choose a harness?
Pick one that fits your waist comfortably, offers support, and includes padding like Crassie’s adjustable 3-pocket design.