10 Of the Best Beginner Strap Ons for Women

Hi gays, the thrill of firsts. First meetings, first dates, first kisses—and now, for many, the first strap on for sex. It might sound a little crazy, but trust us: getting into strap on play can be fun, sexy, and downright empowering , brilliant wlw sex toys . And isn't that what we all want in the bedroom?

Crassie is a women owned company, we understand what wlw supposed to be,  we know the excitement (and nerves) that can come with bringing a strap on toys into your relationship. As a brand dedicated to creating inclusive, body-positive wlw sex toys, we’re here to help you feel confident with every step of the journey.

So, let’s talk strap on harnesses—starting with the basics and moving into our top picks strap on for beginners.

Strap On Sex 101: A Quick Guide
If you're new to the world of strap ons, it can feel like there's a lot to learn. Don't worry—you’re not alone, and you've got this! Here are some simple steps to help you get familiar with your new Crassie strap on harness before taking things to the bedroom.

How to Prepare for Strap On Play:

Get Comfortable: Before you dive in, wear your harness around the bedroom (don't feel weird please). Move, bend, stretch—get used to how it feels on your body.
Practice Makes Perfect: Try putting it on and taking it off a few times, and crassie harness is famous of easy to put on and take off, so it becomes second nature.
Size Matters: Start with a small dildo until you and your partner figure out what feels good.
Lubes: This is a must! You’ll need more lube than you think.
Masturbate with it On: This can help you feel more connected to the harness—and it’s fun!
By the time you’re ready to try strap-on play with your partner, you’ll feel more comfortable and confident. Now, let’s look at some of our best beginner strap-ons and harnesses.

Our Top 10 Beginner Strap Ons and Harnesses

1. Crassie Underwear Harness Strap On + Short Dildo Vibrating 

We've created a pack for you featuring two bestsellers: SnugHer underwear harness strap on and the Blue strap on vibrator. 
The SnugHer Boxer Harness is designed for Comfy and easier, fit and stay on so well they make moving in them a lot easier. Slip it on like underwear—made from lightweight, breathable cotton, it’s soft, comfortable, and built to endure the most intense activities. The strap on vibrator with a bullet vibrator which can be taken off, for special use in bean or nipple massage. this strap on vibrator with more than 10 modes, and a magnetic charge giving it a soft, comfortable feel and smooth. The bottom base vibrator design provides additional pleasure for the wearer.

2. Crassie Lingerie Strap On Harness

If you like to wear underwear walk around at home, this strap on brief  is for you ! It is simple, classic and easy to wear on, Holds your favorite strap ondildo securely in place with a sturdy 1.8“ O-ring, making them perfect for all-night fun and play.

3. Lingerie Strapon Harness

Everyone deserves to feel sexy, which is why our lingerie harness added Plus Size Strap On Harness for curvier women. These breathable, cotton briefs are not only incredibly comfortable but also give you that snug, body-hugging fit that makes strap on play feel even more intimate.

4. Spareparts Harness Adjustable Strap On Black - Nylon

With its velcro waistband and adjustable leg straps, you can find the perfect fit for your body and partner’s pleasure. the jock harness fabric is soft wont rub your leg at all. Its versatility makes it one of the best choices for beginners exploring different positions

5. Crassie Kit | Jock Style Harness + Curved Dildo

What’s better than a strap on kit makes your shopping easier.  A Crassie Curved Dildo Set that’s been specially designed to fit perfectly. The curve shape is ideal for G-spot stimulation, and the set is complete with a variety of sizes to suit your comfort level. Use it to heighten the experience for both you and your partner.

6. Crassie Kit | Dildo Harness For Strap On + Green Dildo Sense

The Sense is incredible. This dildo is handcrafted and made of 100% body safe silicone. It has a soft texture while being firm and flexible.strap oand Its shape is 100% match for starter . with the brief harness, this strap on kit is killer.

7.   6 Inch Curved Dildo Blue Strap-ons Sex Toys

You'll love this strap on dildo that features a macaron blue. being a queer, we know we just need something simple , in one color, classic design , no extra fantasy or even realism , and this 6 inch dildo comes out.  Be loud and proud under the sheets!  This 6 inch dildo is handcrafted and made of 100% body safe silicone. It has a soft ,silky while being firm and flexible.

8. Strap On With VibratorThe Blue Vibrating Dildo has received a vibrating upgrade. Perfect for strap on play with a bullet vibrator pleasure base of more than 10 speeds. It's made with 100% liquid silicone which is silky soft to the touch and body safe. The base features a suction cup that can be stuck to any surface, including the shower as its water proof too. This versatile sex toy can be used manually, solo or as a strap on in a harness. This With the Vibrating base , the wearer can also have stratospheric orgasms! It’s USB magnetic charge and has a running time of 60 minutes.

10.  Yami Clit Sucker Vibrator

well， it is Ok to consider adding a suction vibrator when strap on sex.  the possibilities are endless with this exclusive Yami vibrator that doubles the fun and pleasure for you and your partner. or solo.

How to Make Your First Strap On Experience Feel Amazing
Now that you’ve got your perfect Crassie strap on harness, let’s talk about making that first session unforgettable.

Talk It Out: Eye contact and talk of any kind! Discuss who being the receiver or wearer and what positions you both enjoy. Some couples like having clear roles, while others switch things up. Find what works best for you.

Go Slow: Since you can’t directly feel what’s happening inside your partner, take things slow. Your partner will guide you, and trust us—patience pays off. Always use plenty of lube for a smoother experience.

Add Vibes: Why not throw in a bullet vibrator for extra fun? wlw sex toys is incredibly versatile, and you can experiment with sensations until you find your perfect rhythm.

Let’s Get Closer
Strap on sex is about more than just physical pleasure—it’s a way to feel closer to your partner. skin to skin. Whether it’s your first time or you’re adding some new toys to your collection, Crassie harnesses and dildos are designed with your needs in mind. So, take your time, explore new sensations, and embrace the closeness that strap on play can bring.

Adding a strap on to your sexual repertoire can be liberating. It gives you new ways to connect with your partner, amplifies intimacy, and can create unforgettable moments in the bedroom, hotel, or wherever your adventures take you.

Your New Favorite Bedroom wlw sex toys

Trying out a beginner strap on can open up a whole new world of pleasure and connection with your partner. Whether you're in the bedroom or slipping into something sexy for a romantic night away, Crassie's range of strap-on harnesses has you covered. From our Plus Size Strap On harness to our jock Harnesses, we’ve made sure there’s something for every body type and style.

Ready to explore more? Check out our full collection of Crassie strap on harnesses today. Empower yourself, embrace your desires, and let the magic of strap-on sex bring you and your partner closer than ever before.