Relationships

Should you get new toys for a new partner? We explore queer community opinions, hygiene tips, emotional dynamics, and practical solutions—without judgment.

Hi gays, the thrill of firsts. First meetings, first dates, first kisses—and now, for many, the first strap on for sex.

Some plus size strap on harnesses don’t have the widest range of sizes and others are only adjustable to be able to fit ‘most bodies’.

“I Want to Top, But I’m a Virgin” — A Strap On Fantasy Guide for Nervous Queer First Timers