Double Dildo More Than Just Lesbian Sex Toys — It is the best way for double pleasure

There are a lot of amazing things that two naked women can do together—yes, including taking down the patriarchy. From teasing touches and deep kisses to full-body grind sessions, lesbian sex is an art form of its own. And while fingers, tongues, and boobs are more than enough to keep the night going, sometimes it’s exciting to level things up with lesbian sex toys. That’s when I reach for my favorite bedroom upgrade: the Crassie Flex Double Dildo. Whether you’re straddling, spooning, or riding into a whole new world of connection, this toy brings shared pleasure to the forefront and just mutual moans and touch.

Most double ended dildos on the market—whether realistic dildos or vibrating electric ones—have two very real issues:

1. Electric double ended dildos kill the connection

They vibrate, yes, but:

• You’re both reacting to a motor instead of each other

• Your hips stop leading

• And the shared rhythm disappears

Lesbian sex is about interaction, not outsourcing sensation to a machine.

2. Electric double-ended dildos slide out easily

Many have short, stiff “anchor heads” that:

• Don’t grip the wearer well

• Pop out during movement

• Make it impossible to thrust with intention

This breaks the flow—and your mood.

But the truth is, the double ended dildos are one of the most flexible and closer lesbian sex toys. Lesbian sex is about connected, eye contact, touch, and caring. The double dildo brings along the meaning of together, rhythm together and cum together, which are new possibilities for shared pleasure and deep connection.

From sensual scissoring grinding to thrilling double penetration, double ended dildos can do it all. But first, let's talk about how to use a double sided dildo .

Finding the Right Double Ended Dildos for You

👉 For first-timers: Look for a softer, more flexible silicone option that bends easily. A U-shaped design is easier to control and holds its shape well.

Crassie designed the Flex Double Dildo as a direct solution to these problems.

Both ends bend independently, letting you shape the toy to fit:

• Your bodies

• Your angles

• Your preferred depth

• Your rhythm

The result?

• It stays inside the wearer securely

• It curves perfectly into the receiver’s G-spot

• It holds your chosen shape (no slipping out)

• Your hands stay free to explore each other

Instead of fighting the toy, the toy supports your movement.

This is lesbian missionary the way it should feel.

How to Use the Flex Double Dildo in Missionary 

1. Bend the toy into your preferred shape

A gentle “soft U” works best for missionary.
More curve = more clit pressure for the wearer, more G-spot stimulation for the receiver.

2. Insert the shorter bulb first (the anchor)

The wearer slides the anchor end first, adjusts gently, and waits for that “locked in” feeling.

3. Guide your partner onto the other end

Lift her thigh, pull her closer with her hips, or let her lower herself onto the dildo.

4. Sync your hips

Missionary with a double-ended dildo isn’t about long thrusts—it’s about:

• rocking

• grinding

• rolling your hips in slow circles

• pulling each other closer with every motion

5. Use your hands—your hands are now free

This is the magic of the Flex Double Dildo.

You can:

• Grip her waist

• Cup her face

• Kiss her deeply

• Hold her thighs wide open

• Play with her clit

• Or slide your hands under her ass and lift her into you

Your bodies do the work.
Your hands deepen the connection.

6. Keep eye contact

Missionary with a double-ended dildo turns into a loop of:

• movement

• breath

• emotion

• and mutual pleasure

It’s slow-building, intimate, and incredibly erotic.

The Flex Double Dildo is designed for connection, not just orgasms.

But yes— it delivers both. Very well.

👉 For shared penetration: If you and your partner want to move together, a double head dildo like stick offers better stability and control.

No matter your preference, always choose 100% body-safe platinum silicone for a smooth, non-porous, and long-lasting experience.

How to Use A Double Dong: Lesbian Sex Positions for a U-Shaped Double Dildo & Straight Double Dildo

Double ended dildos open up both pleasure possibilities—whether you’re scissoring, grinding, or diving into double penetration. But how do you get the best angles, rhythm, and full control for maximum enjoyment? Here’s your go-to guide for U-shaped double dildos (for a snug, connected fit) and straight double dildos (for deep, full-throttle penetration).

 U-Shaped Double ended Dildos Positions: Closer, Connected, & Deep 

U-shaped double ended dildos give extra full control and flexibility, making them perfect for synchronized pleasure. The curved design keeps the toy in place, so both partners can move freely.

1. Classic Face-to-Face Scissors (Perfect for queers)

Best for: Deep, controlled thrusting, clitoral stimulation, and eye contact.

How to do it:

Both partners lay on their sides, facing each other, with one leg draped over the other’s hip.
Insert each end of the U-shaped dildo, positioning the curve for a snug fit.
Move in rhythm, rocking your hips and grinding together.

Pro Tip: Press your bodies together for added clit stimulation or use a small vibrator for extra pleasure.

2. Doggy with a U-Twist (Perfect for Strap-On Lovers & Anal Play)

Best for: Hands-free thrusting, deeper penetration.

How to do it:

Both partners kneel on all fours, backing onto their respective ends of the U-dildo.
The curve of the toy holds it in place while you thrust against each other.
Adjust the angle by shifting your hips forward or back for deeper or shallower penetration.

Pro Tip: Use a strap-on harness for extra stability and control.

3. Reverse Grind (Perfect for Slow & Sensual Sex)

Best for: Slow, rolling movements and hands-free penetration.

How to do it:

Sit with your back to your partner, both of you spreading your legs wide.
Insert the U-dildo and grind your hips in a figure-eight motion while leaning into each other.
The curved shape holds the toy in place, so you can focus on pleasure.

Pro Tip: Add a wand vibrator between your bodies for mind-blowing blended orgasms.

Straight Double Head Dildo Positions: Deep & Wild 

Straight, stick-like double ended dildos require more coordination and control but offer deeper penetration and more movement.

1. The Bridge (Perfect for Full-Body Contact & Long Dildos)

Best for: Deep thrusting, full penetration, and slow grinding.

How to do it:

One of the partners lies on their back with knees bent.
The other Partner straddles them, facing away, and inserts their end of the dildo.
Move your hips up and down in a grinding motion, keeping the rhythm steady.

Pro Tip: Use pillows to elevate your hips and get the perfect angle.

2. Double Back Ride (Perfect for Dual Penetration & Hands-Free Play)

Best for: Vaginal.

How to do it:

One Partner lies flat on their stomach while the other Partner straddles them from behind.
Each partner inserts their end, and the Partner controls the motion by rocking their hips.
This position creates deep, rhythmic penetration while keeping your hands free.

Pro Tip: Try a vibrating around the dildo for added stimulation!

Find Your Rhythm, Find Your Pleasure

U-shaped double ended dildos are perfect for close, connected, and controlled pleasure, while straight double head dildos allow for deep penetration and wilder movement. Experiment with different positions, communicate with your partner, and find the rhythm that makes you moan. 

The double dildo is a game-changer—whether you’re making love slow and sweet or fucking with wild abandon. As the top, you’re fully in control: how deep, how fast, how hard. Every thrust is powered by you, and the best part? You get to feel it too. As the receiver, the curves, moves, and fills just right. Double dildo also frees up your hands and mouth, letting you explore other erogenous zones or deepen the intimacy. From tender eye contact to filthy strap on roleplay, this toy flexes with your desires—whatever your mood, whatever your fantasy.