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Whether it’s your first time with a partner or you’re ready to level up your bedroom game, everything you need to know—foreplay, fingering, going down or lesbian sex with toys , written from one queer woman to another. Grab your lube, trim those nails, and let’s dive in.
Foreplay isn’t just the warm-up; for many of us, it’s the main event. Take. Your. Time.
Touch Every Inch of Her Skin
Start slow. Use your fingertips to trace every curve, every dip. Arms, back, thighs, neck—nothing is off limits. Soft touches send shivers and set the mood.
More Hugs, Cuddles, and Kisses
Don’t underestimate the power of just holding her close. Kisses—deep or teasing—on her neck, shoulders, lips? Pure magic.
The Strip Tease Challenge
Yes, make her strip for you. It can be hilarious, sexy, or both, especially if you’re giggling through the awkwardness. Compliment every single reveal. When she shows you her body, she’s trusting you with more than just her skin—let her know she’s stunning.
The Tease of Your Nipples
Rub your nipples against her back, stomach, thighs—anywhere but her lips or breasts. It’s playful and so hot. She’ll want more, and the anticipation is everything. (Don’t worry about cup size. Even an A-cup gets the job done!)
Repeat Until Her Skin Feels Like It’s on Fire
The goal here is to make her crave more before you even start. If you can feel the heat radiating off her, you’re doing it right.
Eating Pussy: Slow, Wet, and All About Her
Going down on a woman is an art, and you’re the artist here. Ready?
Start with Eye Contact
Before you do anything, look at her. Make her feel seen and desired. There’s something electrifying about the silent connection before your tongue makes its move.
Slow, Wide Licks
Start slow. Lick from her butthole all the way up to her clit with your tongue broad and flat—super slowly. Then do it again. And again. The goal here? Get her wet and wanting.
Gentle Nibbles on Her Labia
Treat her labia like the soft, sensitive areas they are. Gentle nibbles, kisses, and light sucking are key. Then go back to those slow licks.
Suck Her Clit (Gently!)
When she’s heating up, give her clit a little attention. Suck lightly, flick your tongue across it while you’re at it, and then dive back down.
Make It Messy
Press your face into her pussy—get her juices on your nose, chin, cheeks—savor it. It’s sexy, raw, and intimate, and she’ll love knowing how into it you are.
The Build Up to Orgasm
Keep going. Edge her by teasing her clit, changing your speed, and mixing it up until she can’t take it anymore. When you’re ready for her to come, tell her to look you in the eye. That connection? Unreal.
Fingering: Slow, Deep, and Intentional
Fingering isn’t about “in and out” at lightning speed—it’s about feeling her body and getting her off with care.
Nails First, Always
Trim those nails, file off any sharp edges, and make sure they’re clean. She’ll thank you.
Start with Soft, Long Strokes
Spit on your fingers or add lube, then start by rubbing her labia. Use slow, soft, wide strokes, and wait for her natural wetness to kick in. The slower, the better.
Switch Up the Angle
Get her on her hands and knees or turn her around so her back is to you. Tell her to spread her legs wide—most women love being guided like this. The angle gives you better access and makes her feel desired and exposed in the best way.
Look, Smell, and Compliment
Take a moment to admire her. Lick her. Smell her. Tell her how gorgeous she is inside and out. Words can do wonders for confidence and turn her on even more.
Slow Penetration and Curved Fingers
Slide one finger in slowly, then arc it upward (toward her pubic bone). That’s where the magic happens. Add a second finger, and if she feels comfortable, a third.
Tease, Edge, and Curl
Speed things up a little, curling your fingers like you’re beckoning her G-spot. Then pause. Pull out, make her wait, and ask: “Who knows how you like it, baby?” Spoiler: it’s you.
Pick Up the Pace
As her breathing quickens, vary your speed and pressure. Edge her by stopping right when she’s close, or be merciful and let her go over the edge. (Just watch out—she might bite.)
Final Thoughts: It’s All About Connection
Whether you’re teasing her with foreplay, making a mess while eating her out, or driving her wild with your fingers, the real key to great sex is connection. Pay attention to her sounds, her breathing, and her body. Ask what she likes, tell her what you love about her, and don’t rush.
Because when it’s two women? You have all the time in the world.
When Toys Make Sex Even Better
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