Tips for Shower Sex

There’s something deliciously dirty (yet squeaky clean!) about getting off while the water’s running. Ever had a “quick rinse” turn into a full-on moaning, wall-gripping, knees-weak situation in the shower? Yeah, same. There’s just something about water play that hits different — especially with a suction cup dildo or a double ended dildo in the mix.

If you’ve never explored lesbian shower sex toys, now’s the time to turn your bathroom into a private spa-slash-pleasure palace. Whether you're riding solo or soaking with your girl, here’s everything you need to know about shower dildos, plus positions, safety tips, and double-stimulation magic.

Stick one to your shower wall, bathroom floor, or the side of the tub, and suddenly you’ve got full control over angle, depth, and pace — no partner required. And when you do invite your partner? Things can get even wetter.

What to Look for in a Shower Dildo (Don’t Settle, Babe)

Not all dildos are ready for wet action. Here’s what to look for in a shower-friendly dildo, especially for queer women:

Strong Suction Cup

This is non-negotiable. You need a firm, wide suction base that sticks securely to any smooth, flat surface — shower wall, bathtub floor, or even your bathroom mirror (you adventurous minx).

Body-Safe, Non-Porous Silicone

Crassie’s collection is made from ultra-smooth platinum silicone. That means no harmful chemicals, no porous bacteria traps, and a velvety-soft finish that glides like a dream.

Waterproof (Obviously)

All Crassie shower dildos are 100% waterproof and easy to clean. After playtime, just give them a quick rinse with mild soap and warm water.

Sizes for Every Body

Whether you like slim, curved toys for easy G-spot access or thicker dildos that give a deliciously full feeling, there’s something in the collection for beginners and size queens.

Compatible with Water-Based Lube

Here’s a shower sex tip that might surprise you: you still need lube, even in water. Because the body’s natural lubricant will wash away.
Important note, babes: Silicone lube will break down silicone toys!
Stick to a good water-based lube — they won’t damage your toy and still feel amazing in the shower. Add it before the water hits, or you’ll be chasing it down the drain.

Top Sex Positions for Shower Dildos 

Let’s get to the fun stuff. If you’ve got a waterproof suction cup dildo, here are some real scenarios that go way beyond just sticking it to the wall and going to town:

1. Shower Doggy Style (Back It Up, Babe)

Attach your dildo at hip height on a wall tile. Turn around, lean forward, and slowly back onto it. Use one hand on the wall for balance and the other to play with your clit. Bonus: add a detachable shower head for dual stimulation.

2. Bathtub Ride (Legs Up, Let Go)

Stick your toy to the floor of your tub, then straddle it. This is perfect for curved toys with thicker bases — you get deep penetration and a natural grinding motion. Pro tip: a towel under your knees helps with grip and comfort.

3. Against the Wall (The Lazy Stand & Grind)

If you’re not in the mood for a squat workout, this one’s for you. Stick the dildo lower on the wall, slide down onto it while standing, and gently rock your hips. It’s subtle, intense, and feels so good with the water streaming down your back.

4. Solo Sensory Tease

Don’t underestimate the power of shower foreplay. Start by letting warm water cascade over you while you gently explore yourself — hands only. Then bring in your suction dildo when your body’s buzzing and begging for more.

5. Shower Head

Stick your dildo to the wall at your preferred angle.

Grab a detachable shower head — ideally with adjustable water pressure.

Set it to pulsing or narrow stream.

While you're riding the dildo, angle the shower head toward your clit for a consistent water tease.

Too much? Pull it back. Not enough? Get closer. It’s like having a partner who never loses rhythm.

You can also try alternating:

Start with the shower head teasing your nipples and clit, then switch to penetration.

Or switch hands: one holding the water, the other on your clit, while the toy stays inside doing its thing.

It’s messy. It’s intense. It’s ridiculously fun.

6. Partner Play: Double the Babes, Double the Toys

Shower sex with your girl? ICONIC.
Here’s how to make it more than just slippery makeouts.

Option one: Oral + Dildo Combo

Let one of you kneel in the tub with the dildo suctioned to the wall behind. The other goes down on her while she rides the toy — giving you full access and giving her layers of stimulation. Teamwork makes the wet dream work.

Option two: double ended dildo Time

Crassie’s double ended dildos (aka "double sided dildos") are made for connected play — especially when you're face-to-face in the shower.

Here’s how to use it:

Get wet together.

Slide one end inside each of you.

Either stand and grind together, or sit in the tub facing each other with knees bent.

Rock your hips in sync, hold each other close, and get lost in the rhythm.

Double ended toys let you feel each other's pleasure — every movement translates. It’s intimate, powerful, and incredibly satisfying.

Want to cum together?
Try this: get the rhythm going, keep eye contact, and add clit stimulation — either with your hands or by pressing bodies close. The build-up is real.

Tips to Keep It Safe & Sexy

Use a non-slip mat in the shower or tub. Safety first, orgasms second.

Apply water-based lube before water hits. Silicone toys + silicone lube = no-go.

Clean toys before and after. Warm water + mild soap = all you need.

Communicate. Shower sex is slippery and fun, but also a little clumsy — laugh, adjust, and enjoy.

Get Wet with Crassie 
Shower dildos and lesbian sex toys aren’t just about orgasms (though… those are fab). They’re about reconnecting with your body, experimenting with new sensations, and making everyday routines a little more exciting.

Ready to make a splash? Check out Crassie’s Shower Dildo Collection — with body-safe silicone, strong suction bases, and gorgeous, non-realistic designs made with queer women in mind.

Water you waiting for?