Do You Ever Get Horny That You Get Mad You Don't Have A Penis? Many Lesbian Tops Say It's Not What You Think

To be clear, I am a cis woman and I like vaginas and having a vagina , and I get to enjoy lots of gender privilege with that. And I am not saying I want a penis full time, and I do not think they're attractive. I'm saying I wish I had the appendage attached to me sometimes so that I can fuck my girl the way she wants, without having to stop and strap on on. And yes I can feel the inside of her with my fingers but I'm talking about being DEEP and feeling together.

BUT sometimes I upset that I'll never be able to FEEL what it's like to be inside her. to get to know her reaction, her tight and her everything...

It’s Not About Having a Penis — It’s About Feeling Connected

The question “Do you ever wish you had a penis?” often sounds like it is about anatomy, but for many lesbian tops, the answer goes much deeper.

For many quuers, the desire behind topping is not about having penis else. It is about wanting to experience a different kind of closeness - the feeling of being physically connected with your partner, the confidence of taking the lead, and the joy of giving pleasure, even more sharing pleasure.

The truth is that lesbian sex has never been limited to one body part or one way of having sex. Research has shown that many women do not experience orgasm from penetration alone and often rely on a combination of touch, stimulation, communication, and emotional connection. Pleasure is complex, and every couple discovers what works for them.

This is also why Crassie strap ons have evolved. Crassie Strap ons not simply designed to imitate something someone does not have. IT is lesbian sex equiptments for exploration, allowing queer couples to experience new sensations, roles, and forms of intimacy together. Features like comfort strap on harness, curved designs, grinding bases, and vibration options are designed with both partners in mind- because shared pleasure matters.

For many queer couples, wearing a strap on is not about replacing anything. It is about adding something new to their connection. It can simply mean wanting to feel closer, more confident, and more connected with the person you love.

That is most cherish part of wlw sex.

That's the inspiration behind the Crassie MeltHer , LustHer and BurnHer Strap On with grinidng base or built-in textured stroker.

The 6 inch flexible dildo MeltHer features a bendable shaft that allows your bend it in any shapes you like, instead of fighting against it. The bendable core lets you fine-tune the angle to match your partner's anatomy, making it easier to maintain comfortable contact in positions like missionary, cowgirl, or doggy style.

The textured grinding base rests comfortably against the wearer's body, encouraging natural hip movement and body-to-body contact with every thrust. Rather than simply holding the dildo in place, the base is designed to make topping feel more engaging, helping many couples enjoy a greater sense of shared intimacy.

Paired with the Crassie Joque Harness, the experience becomes even more secure. The adjustable waist and leg straps keep the dildo firmly in place, reducing slipping and improving control. Unlike many boxer-style harnesses, the open inner panel allows the grinding base to sit closer to your body, so the textured surface can maintain direct contact throughout movement.

Unlike a traditional strap ons, BurnHer is designed to move naturally with your body.  The bottom sucking against your clit, and the built in stroker moves with you whenevr you thrust, grind, and move together, creates stimulation for the wearer, turning every motion into part of the shared experience. Instead of feeling separated from the action, you stay physically engaged with your partner from start to finish.

Combined with a soft grinding base that rests comfortably against the body, BurnHer encourages natural hip movement and closer body contact, making every thrust feel more connected. It isn't about replacing anatomy—it's about helping lesbian couples experience intimacy together, where both partners can enjoy the rhythm, closeness, and shared pleasure of the moment.

Women can sustain sex longer than men. We can have dramatically more numerous and longer-lasting orgasms. EVERYTHING about us is "more sexual" if anything.
The vulva and vestibule (first part of the vagina when you enter from the outside) are very touch sensitive, probably more so than most places on the penis but similar to the foreskin and glans. And the clit is of course much more sensitive than anywhere on the penis.
And of course all of the deeper tissues of the vagina are still sensitive to temperature, pressure and friction, much like most of the penis, and especially the G spot when it comes to pressure, though it still lacks fine touch receptors.