Relationships

The answers were surprisingly varied. Some couples use a strap on almost every time they have sex. Others only bring one out a few times a year. Many quuers admitted that while they love strap on play, it can sometimes feel like a lot of preparation, especially when life gets busy.

If you're reading this, you might've just unboxed your new Flex Dual Density Dildo with Grinding Base—and you're feeling the mix of excitement and "okay, now what?" vibes. I see you, and I totally get it.

I feel like… I don’t know exactly how to put this, but if I’m masturbating, I orgasm much more noticeably than during sex.

How do you manage the 'putting on strap' moment during wlw sex?