For beginners, using a dildo can be an exciting and empowering experience. However, choosing the right size and type is crucial to ensure comfort, safety, and enjoyment.

Here Crassie helps you understand how to select a dildo that perfectly matches your body, focusing on smaller sizes ideal for beginners.

• NO.1 Understanding Our Bodies

Before diving into strap on dildo selection, it’s essential to understand basic female anatomy. The vagina is a muscular tube that can vary in length from about 3 to 4 inches when unaroused but can expand during arousal and sexual activity. The G-spot, located about 2 inches inside the front wall of the vagina, is a sensitive area that many women find pleasurable to stimulate.

• NO.2 Choosing the Right Size

#1. Length

Beginner Size: For beginners, a dildo length of 4 to 6 inches is typically ideal. This size is manageable and allows for comfortable exploration without causing discomfort.

Why This Size: A smaller length ensures ease of use and reduces the risk of over-penetration, making the experience enjoyable and pain-free.

#2. Girth (Diameter)

Beginner Girth: A diameter of 1 to 1.5 inches is recommended for beginners. This size is gentle and less intimidating, allowing the vaginal muscles to adapt comfortably.

Why This Girth: A narrower girth reduces the sensation of fullness, making insertion and use more comfortable for those new to penetration.

• NO.3 Material Selection | Silicone

Pros: Body-safe, hypoallergenic, non-porous, and easy to clean. Silicone dildos are soft yet firm, mimicking the texture of skin.

Ideal for Beginners: The flexibility and softness of silicone make it an excellent choice for first-time users.

• NO.4 Features to Consider

#1. Smooth Surface

Why: A smooth surface reduces friction, making insertion more comfortable and minimizing the risk of irritation.

#2. Flexible Shaft

Why: Flexibility allows the dildo to move with the body’s natural contours, providing a more comfortable and realistic experience.

#3. G Spot Curve

Why: A slight curve can help target the G-spot, enhancing pleasure and making the experience more satisfying.

• NO.5 Health and Safety Tips

#1. Lubrication

Importance: Always use a generous amount of water-based lubricant to reduce friction and enhance comfort.

Compatibility: Avoid silicone-based lubricants with silicone dildos, as they can degrade the material.

#2. Cleaning

Before and After Use: Clean your dildo before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a specialized toy cleaner.

Sterilization: Silicone dildos can be boiled or cleaned with a 10% bleach solution for thorough sterilization.

#3. Storage

Separate Storage: Store your dildo in a clean, dry place, ideally in a separate pouch to keep it hygienic and free from dust.

• NO.6 Step-by-Step Guide for women using dildo

Preparation

Find a comfortable, private space where you can relax without interruptions.

Wash your hands and the dildo thoroughly before use.

Arousal

Spend some time on foreplay to become aroused, which helps the vaginal muscles relax and reduces discomfort.

Lubrication

Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the dildo and your vaginal opening.

Insertion

Start by gently rubbing the dildo against your vulva and vaginal opening to acclimate to the sensation.

Slowly and gently insert the dildo, paying attention to your body’s signals. Go as slowly as needed to maintain comfort.

Movement

Experiment with gentle in-and-out motions or slight rotations. If your dildo has a curved tip, you can angle it to stimulate the G-spot.

Aftercare

After use, clean the dildo thoroughly and store it properly. Take a moment to relax and check in with how your body feels.