How Often Do You And Your Partner Strap?

Wlw intimacy has never been one size fits all.

There Is No "Right Amount" of Strap On Sex

One of the most refreshing things about the discussion was how many people said:

-"Sometimes we use it. Sometimes we don't."

• Some queer couples love penetration and make strap on play a regular part of intimacy.
• Others prefer hands, oral, vibrators, grinding, or a mix of everything.

Many long-term queer couples explained that as work, stress, health, and everyday life become part of a relationship, sex naturally evolves.

What matters isn't how often you use a strap-on. What matters is whether the experience still feels exciting, connected, and pleasurable for both of you.

For many queer couples, penetration is less about the act itself and more about what it represents: trust, communication, vulnerability, and shared pleasure.

Some partners love the feeling of being filled. Others love the experience of giving. Many enjoy the emotional intimacy that comes from learning each other's bodies, rhythms, and preferences over time.

And unlike what Reddit sometimes suggests, there's no "correct" amount of strap on sex in a relationship. Some love to, and some don't.

Strap On Sex Is More Like Conversation, Not a Performance

• Talking about what feels good when strap on on 
• Adjusting angles together to make it closer 
• Checking in during play because the beautiful side of wlw love is caring
• Learning each other's rhythms

Designed by queers who understand that wlw intimacy isn't only about penetration, Flora focuses on creating connection for both partners.

The absolutely pink strap on Flora combines beauty, comfort, and function in a way that reflects real lesbian intimacy.

Flora features:

• Ergonomic curved shaft 
• contact for more intense pleasure.
• A smooth rose-inspired design
• Flexible platinum silicone
• Swirling rose patterns and sensual wax-drip ridges ripple along the shaft, creating layered internal sensations with every movement. Whether you prefer slow grinding or repetitive thrusting, the textured surface massages your inner walls while maintaining consistent.

The Flora, with its stimulating bumpy shaft and pronounced G-spotting rose flower head, is a g spot dildo for all seasons, while the Flora feels unlike anything else, gleefully twist its ridges against the G-spot. It’s so good.

WLW Strap Positions for Flora

Doggy Style

The curved shaft naturally angles upward, helping maintain consistent pressure where many receivers enjoy it most. If your partner enjoys deeper penetration, try placing a pillow under their hips to enhance the angle.

Cowgirl

Let the receiver control depth and rhythm while Flora's curve maintains contact during rocking and grinding movements. Many couples find this position ideal for communication and exploring what feels best together.

Spooning

A favorite for slower, more intimate sessions. Flora's flexible design helps it adapt to your body's positioning, making side-by-side penetration feel more comfortable and relaxed.

Missionary

The curved tip works beautifully when paired with gentle hip rocking rather than forceful thrusting. This position also allows for eye contact, kissing, and easy communication throughout play.

A Rose Designed for Connection

Flora wasn't designed to imitate anyone.

Inspired by the shape of a blooming rose, Flora celebrates lesbian intimacy through thoughtful design, body-safe platinum silicone, and a non-realistic aesthetic many women prefer.

Everything from gentle G-spot nudging to rapid G-spot pounding.

Every Couple Finds Its Own Rhythm

One thing the wlw consistently reminds us is that there is no single "right way" to enjoy intimacy. Some couples love strap-on play regularly. Some bring it out for special occasions. Others mix penetration with hands, oral, vibrators, grinding, and everything in between.

What matters isn't how often you use a strap on,it's whether it brings pleasure, connection, and confidence into your relationship.