Relationships

Do You Ever Get Horny That You Get Mad You Don't Have A Penis? Many Lesbian Tops Say It's Not What You Think

Jul 21, 2026 Carrie

"Do you ever get so turned on that you wish you could physically feel yourself inside your partner?" It's a question that comes up surprisingly often in lesbian communities. Many tops describe wanting the closeness, connection, and physical feedback of penetration-not because they want to be someone else, but because they want to feel even more connected with the person they love.
How Often Do You And Your Partner Strap?

Jun 9, 2026 crassie

The answers were surprisingly varied. Some couples use a strap on almost every time they have sex. Others only bring one out a few times a year. Many quuers admitted that while they love strap on play, it can sometimes feel like a lot of preparation, especially when life gets busy.
There's No "Wrong" Way to Strapon Play

Jan 16, 2026 Whisky

If you're reading this, you might've just unboxed your new Flex Dual Density Dildo with Grinding Base—and you're feeling the mix of excitement and "okay, now what?" vibes. I see you, and I totally get it.
Why Your Masturbation Orgasms Feel Different (and Bigger) Than Strap On Sex

Nov 28, 2025 Crassie

I feel like… I don’t know exactly how to put this, but if I’m masturbating, I orgasm much more noticeably than during sex.
When She Says Let Me Strap On On

Nov 12, 2025 Ali

How do you manage the 'putting on strap' moment during wlw sex?
The Art of Receiving

Oct 16, 2025 Bridge

Bottoming isn’t lying back — it’s leading with your hips, your rhythm, and your desire. Explore what being a lesbian bottom really means, and the sex toys that make it unforgettable.