If you’ve ever bought a strap on kit that ended up too uncomfortable, too complicated, or just… wrong, you’re not alone.
Many strap on kits on the market aren’t designed for us—they’re mass-produced with generic designs that don’t take into account what we actually need.
Straps that dig into your skin? Annoying and painful.
A harness that won’t stay in place? Frustrating.
Dildos that are too big, too small, or just the wrong shape? A waste of money.
So how do you find a strap on kit that works? A kit that’s comfortable, secure, and enjoyable to use? In this guide, we will solve your problems.
Why Most Strap On Kits Don’t Work Well for US
The biggest issue? Most strap on kits on the market aren’t designed with real lesbian experiences in mind.
Here’s why many fail:
1. Uncomfortable, Poorly Designed Harnesses
Many harnesses are either:
Too rigid – The Straps dig into the skin and feel restrictive.
Too flimsy – The dildo moves around too much.
Overcomplicated – Too many adjustments make it hard to put on.
What to Look For: A well-designed strap on harness should:
Fit securely but comfortably – No digging or sliding around.
Be made from soft, flexible materials – Like comfortable fabric or silicone.
Stay in place during movement – No constant adjusting needed.
2.Picking the Wrong Dildo—Size & Shape Matter
Another mistake? Choosing a dildo that doesn’t suit your needs.
Too big? Feels intimidating and uncomfortable.
Too small? It might not provide enough sensation.
Wrong shape? Can make positioning awkward.
How to Choose the Right Dildo:
Beginners: Start with a slim, medium-length dildo that’s smooth and easy to control.
More experience: Experiment with curved or textured designs for added sensation.
Want a fuller feeling? Opt for a thicker, more sculpted shape.
Vibration or no vibration? Vibrating dildos add extra stimulation, but non-vibrating ones offer better control.
Crassie’s Solution: Our strap on kits include carefully matched dildos that are comfortable, body-safe, and ideal for real pleasure.
3. Poor Material Choices—Why Cheap Kits Aren’t Worth It
Many mass-produced kits are made from:
Cheap synthetic materials that feel rough and cause irritation.
Plastics with unsafe chemicals that aren’t body-safe.
Flimsy harnesses that wear out quickly.
What to Look For:
Body-safe silicone dildos – Non-toxic, easy to clean, and long-lasting.
Durable, breathable、soft harnesses – Comfortable enough for long wear.
Reinforced stitching & secure O-rings – Ensures longevity and a snug fit.
How to Choose the Best Strap On Kit for You
Here’s how to make sure you get a strap on kit that fits your needs perfectly.
1. Choose the Right Harness Style
Adjustable Strap On Harness → Best for beginners. The adjustable straps let you customize the fit for maximum stability and comfort. Great for those who are still figuring out their preferred style.
Boxer Harness → Feels like regular underwear, great for stability, extra security and control.
Brief Harness → Provides ultra comfortable, effortlessly wearable harness.
2. Pick a Beginner-Friendly Dildo
Slim, medium-length → Ideal for comfort and ease of use.
Body-safe silicone → Soft, non-toxic, and easy to clean.
Compatible with different harnesses → So you can switch it out later if needed.
3. Prioritize Comfort & Ease of Use
Soft, breathable harness materials → No chafing or discomfort.
Minimal adjustments needed → So you can focus on the experience.
Secure fit → No slipping or repositioning mid-use.
The Crassie Difference—Strap On Kits Made By Lesbians for Lesbians
We know the frustration of finding a strap-on kit that works. That’s why we created Crassie’s strap on kits—designed for real comfort, pleasure, and ease of use.
Comfortable, easy-to-wear harnesses – No complicated adjustments, just a snug, secure fit.
Perfectly matched dildos – Designed for comfort, control, and real pleasure.
High-quality materials – Body-safe, durable, and built to last.
Whether you’re a beginner looking for your first kit or someone who’s tired of bad harnesses, we’ve got something designed just for you.
Stop Guessing—Find the Perfect Strap On Kit Today
Why keep struggling with uncomfortable, frustrating kits? Get a strap-on kit that’s designed for real lesbian experiences.
Check Out Crassie’s Strap-On Kits & Find the Perfect Fit!