Beginner Strap On Advice - The Doggy Style

If you and your girlfriend have ever thought:

• Why does it keep slipping out?
• Is the strap too short?
• Am I wearing this harness wrong?

You’re not doing anything wrong. Doggy style asks more from angle, fit, rhythm, and gear than many other lesbian strap on positions.

Why Doggy Style Is Tricky But Easy For Beginner Strap On

Doggy style creates a few common challenges in lesbian strap on sex :

• Height differences (one partner taller = harder alignment)
• Hip angle issues (receiver tipping too high)
• Harness riding too high on the wearer’s body
• Over-thrusting, which pulls the dildo out instead of keeping it anchored

A strap on relies on external stability and internal rhythm. That means technique matters more than force.

Beginner Strap On Fix #1: Wear the Strap Lower Than You Think

One of the biggest mistakes beginners make, especially after watching social media reels, is wearing the strap on too high.

For doggy style:

1. The base should sit low, close to the clit, not near the belly button
2. A lower mount creates a forward-and-down penetration angle, which helps the dildo stay inside
3. It also allows your pelvis to press into your partner, increasing body contact

This is where strap on dildo with grinding base makes a real difference.

Why a Grinding Base Strap On Changes Everything

A strap on dildo with grinding base does two critical things:

1. It stabilizes the dildo
The wider grinding base presses flat against the wearer's body, reducing wobble and accidental pull-out during thrusts.

2. It stimulates the wearer’s clit
Every forward motion creates friction against the clit, so penetration and pleasure happen at the same time.

Crassie’s Flex Pink Dual Density Dildo with Grinding Base is designed specifically for this:

* Dual density silicone for firmness where it counts, softness where it comforts
* A wide vulva-hugging base for consistent clitoral contact
* A bendable techs for any shapes you want, curve to support G spot stimulation during doggy style

This isn’t just about giving—it’s about mutual pleasure.

Beginner Strap On Fix #2: Change the Motion (Less In & Out)

If the strap keeps falling out, the solution usually isn’t a longer dildo or less dramatic thrusting. 

Try this instead:

* Stay a little deeper inside
* Use shorter strokes
* Add a grinding or scooping motion  with your hips

Think rock forward → pause → rock back, rather than thrusting all the way out each time.

This keeps the dildo seated and feels more intense for the receiver. 

Beginner Strap On Fix #3: Adjust Her Position, Not Just Yours

If your partner tips her hips too high, the dildo can slide downward and out.

Try these adjustments:

* Place a soft pillow or squishy cushion under her hips
* Have her relax her lower body instead of holding tension
* Try a prone doggy position (lying on her stomach, legs together)

This allows:

* Better angle control
* More chest-to-back contact
* A deeper sense of connection and comfort

Height Difference? Try Standing Doggy or Edge-of-Bed Doggy

If one of you is significantly taller, doggy on a bed can be awkward.

Better options:

* Have her lean over the edge of the bed, couch, or table
* You stand behind her, knees slightly bent
* Let gravity help align your hips instead of fighting it

This position pairs especially well with a secure strap on harness and grinding base dildo, because the base stays pressed flat during standing movement.

Strap On  Harness Matters More Than You Think

For doggy style, tight and stable beats soft and stretchy.

the Right Strap On Kit Changes Everything

If you’ve adjusted the angle, slowed the thrusting, lowered the harness, and doggy style still feels awkward or keeps slipping out, this is usually where gear—not skill—is the missing piece.

Doggy style is one of the most demanding positions for a strap on. It requires stability, low mounting, and consistent clitoral contact for the wearer, all while maintaining a comfortable penetration angle for the receiver. That’s why switching to a fully matched strap on kit can make such a noticeable difference, especially for beginners.

The Flex Pink Dual Density Dildo with Grinding Base + Joque Harness Kit was designed specifically for moments like this.