How to Ride a Dildo | Feeling the Art of Sensual Exploration

 

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A strap on that inserts into her so she can feel pleasure while she pleasures you

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Riding a dildo gives a sense of wild freedom that you don’t get lying down! The rocking and rolling motion mimics sex and can actually help you reach that big O. 

 

Different Ways to Ride

There’s more than one way to ride a dildo, and I love giving when strap on on. There’s something powerful and intimate about being dom, to move, to guide, to feel her body respond.

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Get a fluid hip motion down that focuses on her pleasure. Penetration isn’t about pushing straight in and out; that motion can feel horrible. Instead, think of your hips moving like a curve, almost like tracing the shape of a banana. On the way in, dip slightly down and then roll your hips up toward the end of the stroke. On the way out, pull back smoothly, just a little faster.

That curved motion feels so much better for your partner, especially when you’re wearing a dual density dildo that flexes naturally with her body. It hits the G-spot just right and keeps everything feeling rhythmic and real.

If you pay attention, you’ll start to notice exactly where she reacts , the moan, the breath, the shift in her hips. That’s the spot. Once she’s warmed up and craving more, stay in that range and give short, focused thrusts right where her body begs for it. For most women, that’s about two-thirds of the way in, which means keeping most of the toy inside her while moving with just the last third of your stroke.

A lot of women also love a little extra stimulation during strap on play , gentle circles over the clit or even a touch of anal pressure can make her orgasm hit harder. Once you’ve got that hip rhythm down, add a little finger play or a vibrating dildo attachment to really send her over the edge.

How to Ride a Suction Cup Dildo

Suction cup dildos are one of the easiest ways to go for a ride! The suction cup base can stick to any smooth, flat surface, allowing you to ride hands-free!  

1. Choose the Right Surface: Try using a completely flat, smooth, and preferably non-porous surface to get the best seal. Think of places like marble, wall, chair, etc. These help the suction cup dildo stay secure, so you can ride, grind, or thrust without it slipping away.

2. Add a Little Moisture: You can slightly wet the suction cup before sticking it down.

3. Consider Length: You might want a slightly longer dildo than you would usually use if you are planning to stick it to the floor or the wall as there will be some space between the surface and your body.

4. Hygiene is Key: Keep it clean! Remember to clean any surface that will come into contact with your genitals and clean up when you are finished.

Best Positions for Riding a Dildo

Chair Mounted Dildo

Chairs make an excellent surface for your suction cup dildo, as they are solid, and it’s easy to grind or move up and down.

· Ride the dildo facing the back of the chair, using the backrest for support.

· Riding forward can add an extra challenge to your balance.

· Sitting down is ultimately will provide deep penetration, so make sure to use a dildo you can comfortably take all off!

Wall-Mounted Dildo (Doggy Style)

Finding the perfect spot to ride your dildo doggy style can be a bit tricky as you need to leave room for your legs.

· Don’t forget a blanket under your knees for comfort!

· Attach your dildo to a table leg, and place your legs on either side of the table.

· Find a doorway or thin strip of wall that has space on either side for your legs.

Bath Time Bliss

The bath is another great smooth surface for some slippery dildo fun! Here are a few options:

· Suction your dildo to the bottom of the tub and straddle it. You can hold on to the sides for support.

· Attach the dildo to the end of the bath and lie with your legs over the end. If there is some water in the tub, you can slide back and forth.

· Stick your dildo to the side of the bathtub and straddle it in a standing position.

Suction Cup Dildo For Beginners

Best for beginners: The Rose bendable dildo has 2 sizes with a strong suction cup!  The shaft is bendable and its shape can be it the curved angle you need for G-spot pleasing angle.

Best Strap On Dildo For Intermediates

This Desire curved soft silicone dildo for g-spot stimulation and features textural details. It is 6 inch dildo featuring a curved bulbous head designed to reach those deeper internal places, delivering intense stimulation directly to your G-spot. Surrender to the irresistible allure of pleasure as each ripple caresses and teases, building waves of ecstasy that engulf your senses.

FANTASY DOLPHIN TEXTURED SILICONE DILDO

Best for experienced: This dolphin dildo from Crassie has a dolphin shape for some serious stimulation!

Strap On On With Virating Dildo

Where most of strap on dildo provides pleasures for the receiver, but Crassie vibrating dildo strap on kit considers dual pleasure, the vibration on the shaft and bottom, which allows both the receiver and wearer to enjoy, this one has a soft silicone flickering tongue to pamper your clit. This makes it ideal for using solo as well as with a partner!

Partner Positions

Dildo Riding Oral Sex

Choose your preferred riding technique and use your free hands and mouth to pleasure your partner! As you grind back and forth, the rhythm will also add a delicious rhythm to your oral technique!

Double Penetration

Ride-on dildos are perfect for exploring double penetration with a partner without needing to find an extra person! Simply climb atop your dildo and have your partner penetrate you anally.

Double penetration can feel incredibly satisfying, but it’s also pretty intense, so take it slowly and use plenty of lubrication!

 

Conclusion

Mastering the art of riding a dildo opens up a world of pleasure and exploration. Whether you prefer a suction cup dildo, a mount, a sex machine, or a realistic sex doll torso, there are endless possibilities for solo and partner play. Remember to prioritize comfort, communication, and consent in any intimate encounter.

 

FAQs 

Is it safe to use a dildo for penetration?

Yes, using a dildo for penetration is safe as long as it is used responsibly and cleaned properly. Always use plenty of lubricant and start slowly to ensure comfort and pleasure.

Can I use a dildo with a partner?

Absolutely! Riding a dildo with a partner can be an exciting and intimate experience. Communication and consent are key to ensuring a pleasurable encounter for both parties.

How do I clean and maintain my dildo?

To clean your dildo, use warm water and mild soap. Ensure it is thoroughly rinsed and dried before storage. Store it in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.

Can I use a dildo for anal play?

Yes, many dildos are designed for anal play. Look for dildos with a flared base to ensure they can be safely used for anal penetration.

Where can I find high-quality dildos?

You can find a wide variety of high-quality dildos from Crassie.